This blog is towards "my expression of style for the ‘A Style Of My Own’ blogger contest by Women’s Web and Trishla emart"
Who has ever said that a new life starts only once you get married or once you come across a critical situation? Life has no particular definition except what webster says "A certain way or manner of living with respect to conditions, circumstances, character,conduct, occupation, etc.; hence, human affairs; also, lives, considered collectively, as adistinct class or type; as, low life; a good or evil life; the life of Indians, or of miners. That which before us lies in daily life."
I may not be a philanthropist or a saint, but being a social animal living in this world and observing every move through an objective lens, can today say that LIFE IS nothing but ENDURANCE. And my STYLE is my Life's Perception!!!!
Who has ever said that a new life starts only once you get married or once you come across a critical situation? Life has no particular definition except what webster says "A certain way or manner of living with respect to conditions, circumstances, character,conduct, occupation, etc.; hence, human affairs; also, lives, considered collectively, as adistinct class or type; as, low life; a good or evil life; the life of Indians, or of miners. That which before us lies in daily life."
Every time you want an solution to your problem or situations your family, friends, social circle, etc, come back to you giving an alternative along with an additional sentence saying "if it does not work then thats the way life is!"
Is it really that? We being social animals who have excelled in every sphere of existence be it towards making our survival the best or worst do not have an answer or definition for a four lettered word? When we say that we are starting a new life or our lives have become stagnant or old, we are talking about our perception towards survival. Our style of interpreting every single moment, action, human being around us. This style is unique to every individual and is ruled by the basic fundamentals learned in the early ages of growth through our surroundings and family.
Every day is a new opportunity to change our perspective towards a healthy and happy sustenance be it through food for our body or the food for thought. Each day gives us an opportunity to clean the slate clean of previous day's thoughts and start fresh with new ingredients. It is tried and tested that a healthy mind leads to a healthy body. but why is it that I am sharing all this with you who is worldly and has loads of people around to guide and advice you? A simple reason that every single day since my engagement was fixed, there were tonnes of people around parting with loads of advice on how things would & should be after marriage. And that was the moment I decided that my life would not be a stereotype one. It would be different and would suit my style of thinking. I would never wait for a crucial situation to do introspection and take decisions for change, instead would wipe the slate clean every day and start afresh. But does it make me sound too mature or childish - also would it matter to me as to how people analyse my actions from their glass panes? The only thing that matters is that there is peace, happiness, joy and tranquility around me. Any amount of compromise or bending is not bigger than my ego or the happiness which the results get. Only Mount Everest can be big than a human being not his/her's ego.
This is my style of living and dressing and eating! I dress casual as per the circumstance or dressy as per the occasion but that does not mean that i do not dress down. I eat as per the circumstances hot and sizzling wok or my preference of cold food as per the situation.
